I am so glad that you found me.
About You Perhaps: you stumbled onto my site by accident, or perhaps it was intentional...I don’t know how you got here, but I can help to fill in the blanks…
Let us set the stage, shall we?
Maybe your wife/ GF is wonderful and admirable, but how do you feel about her? Do you ever look at her and think, I wonder what it would be like to be with someone else, or how bored you are.
Do you know why men cheat?
You probably know the obvious ones: money, power, and sex. But did you know that there are other reasons that aren't so obvious? Like…
Sometimes the woman you love is just not enough for you.
And that's okay! You don't have to feel guilty about it—sometimes, all a person needs is sex with someone else.
The truth is that you are a visual creature!
You seem to be attracted to beautiful women who have confidence. When a woman knows she's sexy, it's the sexiest thing in the world.
You've been married for a long time and your wife has the nerve to deny you sex.
She gives you some lame excuses like "I'm too tired" or "I have a headache." You're not buying it because she was never like this before.
She starts to lose interest in sex with you.
This makes you feel trapped, which leads to resentment. You start to wonder why you're stuck in this relationship—and then you find yourself looking for an escape route.
She starts using sex as a weapon/ negotiating tool to control you.
She is denying sex to make you spiteful, and she knows that it will hurt your feelings, so she uses it to get her own way.
Lastly you are afraid of losing half of everything you own (divorce)
You should always put yourself first
Being married doesn't mean that you have to sacrifice your happiness for someone else! The very thing that made you fall in love with her, the thing that had you hooked on her, is over. And now, what you have is just… routine.
But now that you're going through the motions and trying to find something—anything—to make it interesting again, you've realized your relationship is making you feel trapped.
If you find yourself nodding in agreement with any of the above, then it's time to start making changes. You deserve someone who will treat you well.
Here is a tip: Date Me